Etiquette

Scheduling a date:

  • To book a date with me, please fill out mybooking form or send me an email atscarlettvervain@proton.me

  • I prefer to handle the screening & deposit process via email. It shows me that you are serious about spending time together. 

    Once we’ve made it past the screening & deposit, I will happily give you my phone number and we can continue our communication via text, if desired. 

The Screening Process

  • Photo of your drivers license or passport (you can mark things out but must keep face, name, and age visible)

  • Selfie with you holding your drivers license or passport

  • Phone number (must be your real number)

  • One method to verify your occupation (LinkedIn, work website with bio, work badge)

All items listed are required to complete the screening process

All of your information will be deleted immediately after screening is completed

Once you have completed the initial screening process, you will never have to do it again

“I appreciate your efforts in putting my mind at ease. When I feel safe, I am free to dive into the present moment and give you my best self.” — Scarlett Vervain

Things to know before we meet:

  • Please present the investment (100s preferred) in an obvious location within 5 minutes of your arrival so we may enjoy our time together without disrupting the flow.

    If we’re meeting in a public area, feel free to place it in a card or include it in a book/gift I’ve been craving for extra brownie points (;

  • Practice excellent hygiene. Please shower, brush your teeth (and tongue) and floss directly before our time together. I do all of these things & more so that your experience is pleasant and memorable. I would like the same effort in return.

    If you are not hygienic upon arrival I will invite you to freshen up

  • The consideration is for my time and companionship only. Anything beyond that is only a natural, organic progression between two consenting adults.

  • Please do not arrive early. I understand that things come up, so it’s okay if you’re running 5-10 minutes behind. I will add that time to the end of our session.

  • Consent & consideration are important to me. Respect my boundaries and we will have an amazing time together!

Overnights

  • For a single overnight, I understand that you may want to stay up late (or not sleep at all)—and I am so down for that. Just give me a heads up before our date so I can ensure I am well rested before the fun.

  • That being said, I do require 6-7 hours of sleep for multiple overnights in a row.

Things To Know Before We Travel Together

  • When traveling together, I do require a full 6-7 hours of sleep each night to show up as my best each day.

  • For dates longer than 24 hours, I require 2–3 hours of solitude each day to recharge and stay fully present. This quiet time can be split up to flow naturally with our schedule.

  • Please see the Investment page for my travel rates. I purchase my own flights, no exceptions

“Sensuality likes to make love at the border where time and space change places. When she is considering a potential lover, she takes him to the ocean and watches. Does he dance with the waves? Does he tell her about the time he slept on the beach when he was seventeen and woke up in the middle of the night to look at the moon? Does he laugh and cry and notice how big the sky is?”

—J. Ruth Gendler